Relationship matters, please advise a fellow

Editor -

Please hide my identity.
Am a man aged 37 and married to a 35 years old beautiful woman with two children. .I have a very sensitive issue and I have tried but I don't know what to do now. I dated and married my wife and in courtship we agreed no sex though my lady and I had dated other people before that. For sure we lived without sex.

Now after wedding we have our first sex as married people but my wife defecated where we lodged. It was embarrassing, I understood thinking it's phobia and the food we had during our wedding. So I paid someone to clean the beddings at the lodge.

That was during honeymoon.But that happens the followed day.In the years we have married my wife defecates when making love. She first shouts in excitement then defects when she reaches climax. I saw one medical doctor in Mulago Hospital and he tried but nothing is changing.

Sometimes when am horny I even fear to have sex with her because of this condition.
I tried to ask her she says that is the reason men she dated were leaving her. People please help me am in a mess!.

Comments

Post a Comment

Popular posts from this blog

Secrets you didn’t know about Rema Namakula’s Father

Editor -
Image
Musician  Rema Namakula  joined the rest of the world to commemorate  Father’s Day  which is a celebration honoring fathers and celebrating fatherhood, paternal bonds, and influence of fathers in society. Apart from going beyond the traditional call of duty of providence and protection, men nurture children and inspire others to the enjoyable side of fatherhood that has been recently a mother’s realm hence song bird Rema Namakula believes such a day should be remarkably marked to honor the amazing fathers who give in their whole towards sustaining happy families by fulfilling their responsibilities. Unlike other people who joined the rest of the world to mark the day, Rema Namukula’s story is quite different since she lost her Father at the age of one. She doesn’t know how being loved by a Father looks or feels like but at least she has learnt its always pure by mere looking at how her daughters treasure their father. In a Facebook post seen by Mbu, Th
Read more

Kasiano Wadri’s son narrates eye witness account

Editor -
Image
Arua municipality contestant Kasiano Wadri’s son, Saddam Buni has narrated on his Facebook page, the events that occurred last evening in Arua. Buni, a former Kyambogo university guild president stated that according to an eye witness, whose name has been withheld, there were no clashes leading to the shooting. “It’s not true there were any fighting. I have been sleeping at Pacific Hotel. When I went, everything was calm.  As I sat at the reception after arrival,  three boys arrived and told us Wadri’s supporter was shot”, he stated. According to the eye witness , he advised Hon. Zaake and Hon. Kyagulanyi Sentamu to go upstairs to their rooms and they obliged. The source further alleged that there was no fighting but shortly afterwards, the place was surrounded by security operatives while the dead body as in the car. The eye witness locked him/herself in a room. Kyagulanyi’s driver, Yasin  Yusuf was shot dead this evening.  The legislator earlier in the day campaign
Read more

Eddy Kenzo shares his HIV status to disapprove critics

Editor -
Image
 Eddy Kenzo shared his HIV (Human Immunodeficiency Virus) results with the public to counter various reports from tabloids and bloggers who have been claiming that his recent bedridden state is because his HIV positive. Edrissa Musuuza is not new to blunt attacks from the media. He has for long been aimed at by a few tabloids, journalists and bloggers with a couple of wrong reports and rumors. Apart from the time when he hit back physically against Kasuku’s false rumors, the Stamina’ singer has always kept his cool and avoided retaliation. Not this time though! Eddy Kenzo was reported to be suffering from a killer disease according to Kamunye, a local tabloid. They wrote that the singer has been on medication but not following his doctor’s prescriptions and it is the reason he suddenly fell ill to the point of being admitted for days at Case Clinic. He actually missed performing at the One Africa Music Fest in London because of illness. On reading the news, the
Read more

Read the exclusive speech of Barbie Kyagulanyi after meeting her hubby Bobi Wine

Editor -
Image
a detailed report made by Bobi Wine's wife Barbie Kyagulanyi after being granted access to her husband Bobi Wine. you can exclusively read it below. Family, friends and well-wishers, Today I went with lawyers and members of the Uganda Human Rights Commission to Makindye military prisons, and after many day s I was able to see my husband with my own eyes. I am first of all thankful to God that he is still alive! Let’s continue to pray for him. Bobi is in pain. Bobi is hurting EVERYWHERE. We nearly lost him! He wonders how he is still alive after such treatment. Bobi cannot stand on his own. He has a swollen face- very deformed. At first sight, it is very unlikely that you would recognize him. You may not understand this unless if you see him. His forehead is bruised and his eyes are red. He has many wounds including one on his ear. He seems to have been punched many times on the face. He cannot walk. He was carried into the room where we saw him. He cannot sit s
Read more

Zari's son Raphael Semwanga joins music industry

Editor -
Image
Zari Hassan’s second born son of her children with the late Ivan Semwanga Raphael Ssemwanga has hit the road of rap and hip hop as releases a new track dubbed ‘Goal’.  Lil flex is his stage name and just like mummy in her early days he wants to tap in on the multi-million dollar music industry.                                                        Zari and son Only hope he doesnt quit like she did but hey some online users were quick to praise the track and Lil Flex's rap skills as promising and good for a start. The link to his song is shared in Raphael's instagram bio as he posted “Guys please go do the most on my new track. 
Read more

Ofwono Opondo’s daughter graduates in Poland

Editor -
Image
Government mouthpiece, Ofwono Opondo is a smart man. While he was debating in TV talk shows about standards of Ugandan universities, the NRM diehard, li Ofwono’s daughter has graduated in Polish university,  Vistula . The proud father attended the 2017/18 graduation ceremony, this time not in Karamoja regalia but rather a black suit and yellow tie. According to online sources, in Poland, higher education is free for Polish students.  International students are required to pay tuition fees, which are typically in the range of US$2,300 (about Shs8.3m) -4,530 (Shs17m) per year at public universities. This actually makes Poland one of the cheapest places for international students. However, Vistula is a private university, nevertheless, it’s the only! Empowered with knowledge and skills, there is no doubt Mr. O.O’s daughter will be of great value to Uganda! Congratulations!
Read more